7 Reasons to Marry the Nice Guy

Why should you marry the nice guy? It should be a no brainer. However, many women avoid the typical “nice guy” in search of something else. What may that something else be? The bad boy, of course. The Sebastians (Cruel Intentions) and Dylans (Beverly Hills 90210) of the world. It’s true when they say most women desire a bad boy. Bad meaning someone “bad” for you. However, after all the heartache and playboy games are over, the nice guy may be exactly what you need.

Here are seven wonderful reasons to stop friend zoning the good ones.

Marry the Nice Guy – He’s Everything You’ll Ever Need

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1.) He’ll always put you first.

The nice guy wants you to know you’re at the top of his priority list. Therefore, he’ll always go out of his way to show you how special you are. You’ll never have to worry about your emotions being ignored because he’s super attentive to your needs. So much so, it may be a little overbearing at times because he’ll ask you how you’re feeling all the time, and if you need anything. But just soak all the love and attention up.

Wouldn’t you rather someone be overly interested than not interested at all about you?

2.) Compliments are a way of life.

A guy who’s totally into you is infatuated with you. Your hair, your voice, your face … he loves it all. So, he’ll likely compliment you very often. That’s just something nice guys do. It can be hard to get used to initially. But just be thankful. Say thank you and smile.

Many women aren’t used to receiving constant flattery; therefore, it can feel a little uncomfortable when they finally start to receive it. But bask in it. Every woman deserves to be wooed.

3.) He probably won’t cheat.

This reason alone should be enough to convince you to marry the nice guy. He’s highly faithful and usually very trustworthy. His actions will show it as well. He’s accountable and willing to let you know of his whereabouts 100% of the time. He has nothing to hide. You’ll also likely never see any red flags with him. He pretty much checks out on all levels.

So, why do so many women steer clear? That’s an age-old question. Maybe too much honesty is unbelievable (as weird as it sounds). Many women have dated so many bad guys and players, they become accustomed to receiving less than they deserve. So, when a good man steps into the picture, he’s ignored. Bad treatment has become the norm. But retrain your brain. You deserve better.

Always Remember You Deserve the World

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4.) He’s selfless. He’ll do anything for you.

If you have a need and he’s aware of it, he’ll fulfill it. No questions asked. As previously stated, you’re his top priority. Oftentimes, his own needs will come after yours. That’s just how much he adores you. If you’re reading this list, and you’re dating a selfless man…he’s definitely husband material. The last thing you’ll ever need in a marriage is a selfish spouse.

5.) When you hurt, he hurts.

The nice guy never wants to see his lady hurting. He’s empathetic and feels your pain. He’ll never want to see you in tears. He’ll do everything in his power to make you feel better. You’ll never have to worry about your emotions being ignored because he is attentive.

In marriage, it’s important to have a spouse who cares about your emotional well-being. In unhealthy marriages, feelings and emotions are ignored. This can lead to resentment and many other problems. So, choose a nice guy who feels your pain. You won’t regret it.

6.) He listens. He really, really listens.

Knowing about your workday is important to him. Hearing about your frustrations is never burdensome. He’ll go out of his way to make sure you’re heard and wants you to know it. Not only will he listen, but he will engage. He’ll engage in dialogue and be responsive to your concerns. After all, you’re the apple of his eye. Marry the nice guy!

7.) He adores you.

All of you. There’s absolutely nothing you’ll ever be able to do to turn him off. Morning breath, bad hair days, and an occasional stank attitude won’t scare him away. He thinks the world of you, and nothing will ever change that. He’ll always see the good in you even when you fail to see it. He’ll uplift you and make you feel as if you’re the only girl in the world.

So, there it is! Seven excellent reasons to marry the nice guy. Stop running from the good ones. If you run too long, the good guys will eventually give up and find someone else. But don’t allow that to happen. Grab him while you can. Receive his love and never look back!

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Lauren Sanders

Lauren Sanders is a professional matchmaker and dating coach. She helps singles find love and find themselves. She is passionate about teaching self-worth, learning from past mistakes, and inner healing.
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